The most important thing is that we have each other..

Discover the story of Magda and her husband.

In the beginning, when we were not yet married, we went with the flow. Typical of young people - what is meant to be, will be. However, nothing was. We didn't worry about it. We were young, we were enjoying life. But after 6 years of trying, we decided to take the next step. At that moment, we had matured into wanting to have children so much that our minds began to whirr. It wasn't easy at first. Like any couple or married couple, we argued and blamed each other. Added to this was the worst thing for us, which was the fact that we had no support from either of our parents.

The time had come for research. It took six months before the first transfer took place. It turned out that my husband had extreme azoospermia. Unfortunately the doctor explained to us what this entailed. We knew we had little chance of conceiving a child. The hope that surrounded us got us very lost and confused.

First transfer, fear, tears, happiness mixed with adrenaline. After two weeks, NOTHING. Absolutely nothing. However, we did not give up. The next two transfers were also failures. We decided that everything was happening too fast. We decided to let it go for a while.

The hardest time for us was when our friends found out about our problem and a few days later announced to us that they were pregnant. Probably every woman who wants to have children has experienced a similar situation and knows what a pain in the heart it is. A pain that is mixed with joy, because each of us wants the best for our loved ones. Today, my friend's daughter is almost two years old and I am happy to be her auntie!

Over time, people get used to it. Sometimes one forgets for a while. But it is worth fighting despite the failures! Someday we will surely be parents, and all the pain and all the waves of failure that have flooded us will be forgotten.

Hope dies last. My husband is an optimist and he is the one who supports me every step of the way, in the moment of breakdown and in the moment of happiness. We keep fighting. And we don't forget that in church before God we swore to each other for better or for worse! No matter what.

Thank you that clinics like yours exist and have wonderful people, doctors working in them. You are our support! For both of us.

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